The “DECISION” when your heart and head collide

 

Everyone, without exception will find themselves at a crossroads at various points in their life.  Whether it is in the form of a relationship, career move, relocation, business endeavor, significant purchase, and a plethora of other micro decisions that can have a profound affect on our lives. These decisions are never easy, especially when we desperately want to follow our hearts, but due to our conditioning and personal experiences our thoughts and fears keep us tethered to the familiar.  The inner struggle for expansion can  leave us exhausted, bitter, and sad for what “could be.”

It’s time … it’s time to embrace change. To release the fear of what ifs.

What if I make the wrong decision?

What if I loose everything?

What if …

Well … What if you did nothing and remain exactly where you are?

Only you can decide when it’s time to embrace change and start living your life in a fully expanded way that lights you up deep within your core. But the decision starts with you, you have to make peace with what you choose to do or not do without attaching a cloud of judgement that hangs over you as a constant reminder of a choice you made or didn’t make.

There are no “bad” decisions, there are only decisions. If a decision you make does not turn out the way you had hopped, it does not mean you made a mistake. It means that you have expanded into more than what you once were, it means you have clarity on what you truly desire, it means that you have AWARENESS and CHOICE to make even more decisions. These decisions allow you to align your head and your heart in a way that fills your soul with a deep inner knowing that you are transforming in an expansive way into becoming the most authentic YOU, that you have ever known!

This stretch, this transformation is never easy. I know, I’ve been there many times myself, as have my clients. What I have come to realize is that the anxiety created from not making “the decision” is profoundly more uncomfortable than making the decision and stepping into it fully. Give yourself space to decide, but when you do decide, own it 100% without judgement and love yourself every step of the way.

May you dream bigger, trust your heart, create from within, and emerge softer, wiser, and beautiful.

XOXO Wendy Ann